The fight isn't about the dishes.

If you keep having the same fight, it's rarely about the topic. This guide shows you what's underneath, and what to say instead.

• The cycle most couples get stuck in, and why it isn't either partner's fault
• 5 repeat fights: the dishes, the phone, the in-laws, money, and "I was about to"
• A script for each fight, for both partners, to try tonight
• How to tell when it's time to get help

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